"The Dating Play Place"

I have been single for 4 years after having been in two 9 year relationships. As  I pursue a new meeting either in person or online it always begs the question, where do you think she will like to go on the first, second or third date.

It can become mundane and/or expensive to say the very least. Yes I know a walk on the beach is free but lets face it, that is a cliche' and not always a true desire.  Frankly not all women/men are comfortable in swimsuits (unless their 19 LOL) in the first stages of dating a new person.

Remember how in the beginning they wanted the lights real low or off when #%$@&!

I have come up with a few ideas but I would enjoy hearing others views and experiences as one day I may write a book on this idea. Who knows, stranger things have happened...